For example, if Jill's flight was scheduled to arrive at 8:45 and her plane landed at any time after this, then you could say:
- Jill's plane arrived late. [later than it was expected to arrive]
If Jill needed to catch a train from the airport at 9:15, and the late arrival of her plane made this impossible, you could also say:
- Jill's plane arrived too late to catch the 9:15 train. [later than needed for the purpose of catching that particular train]
Whether something happens too late will depend on which purpose is being discussed:
- Jill's plane arrived too late to catch the 9:15 train, but not too late to catch the 9:45 train.
Only use too late if you are directly discussing a particular purpose, or when a particular purpose is implied. If you arrive at a meeting after it has begun, you are simply late. If you said you arrived too late for a meeting, native English speakers would probably think you meant that you had arrived after it had ended (i.e., the purpose of attending the meeting was not achieved).
OTHER ADJECTIVES:
Too behaves the same way when used with other adjectives:
- The coffee was too hot (to drink). [hotter than desired for the purpose of drinking]
- Jill was refused entry to the cathedral because her skirt was too short. [shorter than allowed for the purpose of entering the cathedral]
- The soldier was too young to vote, but not too young to serve in the military. [younger than allowed for one purpose, but not the other]
- Jill works too hard. [harder than desired, presumably for her happiness or health, depending on context]
